To say the least...

This has been the most unproductive spring break I've ever had. Yes I'm on spring break. So early right?? But yeah. Monday is coming soon so I have to bury my head in my books once again. Hope everyone has doing good. By the way, was I the only one that has been so badly affected by this whole time change?? Like I sleep late and still have to wake up early. Completely threw me off! Anyway I'm off to go do some writing.

In The Mood To Share

Not an STI/STD but a picture. I just love this one right HERE, definitely not better than the Baby Kay, for any of you that missed. But for some reason I love the pic. Rough, rugged, raw but still breathtaking. I can see myself sitting down, right in the middle of all the debris and watching the sun look like that. I'm weird like that, I know.
 

When is enough, enough??

So of the late, I've been hearing things regarding relationships and every discussion ends with "When is enough, enough?"

So my dear blogger friends, what would you do in this scenario?
You've been dating your partner since high school for 6 years. You've had ups and downs, a couple break ups and get back togethers,  but you stuck through it all, you made it work. Now of the recent, lets say for a year now, your partner has been allowing family members, particularly siblings, to be more involved in your relationship than they ought to. It has gotten to the point where you and partner were getting it on and sibling  walks into the room, delivers a message and request for immediate attention. Mind you, all this time you are naked, mid-moan and partner is actually more focused on the messaged than you at this point. On other occasions, partner skips dates, meetings and moments to chill with you for siblings. Given we all have familial responsibilities but seriously, mid-moan?? Now you've spoken to your partner numerous times, even spoken to sibling but still the problems persist and has even led to conflict between sibling and further, backstabbing.  Now tomorrow is your 6th year anniversary and partner cannot make dinner reservations due to sibling duties.
What do you do?

I am very big on allowing ppl to make their own decisions. So my response is always or at least most of the time, if I'm not yelling, a question. In this case my questions for reflection were "What is your breaking point? What is the point you will NOT go beyond? Have you gone beyond it?"
Now in proper defense, partner was not perfect when you met. But you saw more good than bad. There have been things that could've and most definitely should've changed at some point, but like we all do at time, you got lost in the moment. Now 6 years down the line, those issue have become more bothersome than they were 4 years ago.
So what do you do? Do you decide to give up on 6 years of your life with this person? Do you do more talking to get this person to realize their faults after having done so numerous times?
What do you do?
I'm all ears ppl.

Baby Kay

So my "friend" took some shots of this baby in his church and he is uber cute!!! This is my fav. and the only pic of the babe on the site Click Here. But of course as  per relations I saw more than one ;-).
I know I've been absent. School sturvs will NOT kill me!!

Polite Insults

I give them so I know when they are being sent my way. Dude just asked me when did I become so cool. Response: When did your brain start functioning?

Going back to studying. LIES I TELL YOU LIES!!

Smoothies and other things

Just had the best smoothie all year made by yours truly. Funny since its the only smoothie I had all year. Anyway it was good. Orange and Banana. My sister who is 5 spells banana like this "bananananana". I asked her why so many "nana-s" she said because she doesn't know when it stops. Children, so cute. Anyways. A special THANK YOU to all those who showed care and concern. You guys are the best! Thank you. I feel so spezzcial. I've been able to get my mind back on track and focused and I've decided not to be the one to allow sheep to know their colors (insider). Don't you hate when ppl put that in a post. Use to make me feel left out. I'm still not explaining sha. Anyway going to study.
I forgot to mention. We (at church, I mean) were blessed in the presence of Kunle Meshida. His praise and worship is the business. Never sweated so much in church and it was worth it.
Anyway have a blessed week and remainder of the month.

Lerra pipuls

Burnt Blogger

I've been such a burnt blogger for the past week now. Questioning who I am, what I'm doing, if its the correct career choice, etc. and in the end I just end up feeling sad. I refuse to say depressed, water never fill well oo abeg, in other words, it hasn't gotten to that point. Anywho, just wanted to say, Adede's alive, stressing and tired but alive. Hope everyone had a wonderful week(end) and something to look forward to, whether its Vals or not. :-).

Lerra pipuls